Notes from Rich.
An Intimate Friend
At a bagpipe competition one would expect the judges to be fans of bagpipe music. So why do the judges have their hands over their ears? Inflated bagpipes naturally make a steady droning noise. The actual music is played over and above that. In covering their ears, the judges shut out some of the low-pitched noise while still hearing the higher pitched melody.
Low level noise surrounds us wherever we go, whether it is the rumble of traffic or the incessant, inane chatter coming from the television, radio, or device. A lot of it comes out of our mouths and from our fingertips.
Imagine if every word you spoke, typed, or shared in a day were laid out for a judge to examine by the standard of usefulness or kindness. How many of them would be deemed less than constructive or simply unnecessary noise? We could put those words to much better use – we could be helpful, kind, encouraging, even inspirational.1
Good advice comes from Proverbs 7:4 where the father instructs his son to call insight your intimate friend instead of pursuing urges of passion. The word insight can be translated understanding, where the background idea is to discern. It refers to knowledge, which is superior to the mere gathering of data. We receive information and we spread information. Insight means we know how to use the knowledge we possess.
There is little argument that we are inundated with a glut of information – so much of which is low level noise. Inflated bagpipes naturally make a steady droning noise. Could there be a better description of the information world today? Therefore, we are called to discernment, to know what is true or false, good or bad, useful or useless. How much of what I take in and give out provides wisdom, insight and understanding? Probably not much if we simply lean on our own understanding – something we are exhorted not to do because on our own we are limited, biased and broken. But the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding (Prov. 9:10); the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding (Prov. 2:6).
The self-disclosure of God provides a necessary reference point for our relationship with information – how we take it and how we give it. What if, when I give out information, I were to share it as if I were speaking to an intimate friend? If we only said of others what we’d say to them face to face, a lot of conversation would never take place. As usual, Proverbs does a good job of hitting the nail on the head.
A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.
Proverbs 29:11
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1Adapted from Dave McLaughlin, Men of Integrity (March/April 2010)
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